Thomas Richard Gibbar

Thomas Richard Gibbar, 76, of Perryville passed away on Sunday, March 3, 2024 at St. Louis University Hospital. He was born in Perryville on August 16, 1947 to Harold and Zita (French) Gibbar, the third of their four children. Thomas and Helen (Pingel) Gibbar were married on December 14, 1968 at St. Vincent's Catholic Church, and enjoyed 56 years of marriage. He was a member of the United States Army and a veteran of the Vietnam War. Thomas was a charter member of the Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks, Lodge 2701 and performed numerous roles for the organization at local, district, state and national levels including Treasurer, Leading Knight, Exalted Ruler and National District Deputy. Thomas started his professional career as both a government and a corporate auditor before opening Gibbar Bookkeeping and Tax, which operated out of the Perry Plaza for more than 30 years. His clients knew that his door was always open, and would often visit between appointments to chew the fat and discuss events affecting Perryville and Perry County. He also volunteered for both the Perry County Behavioral Health Service and the Senior Citizens Association. Thomas was well known as a chef, able to throw together dishes without needing a recipe (to the delight and frustration of those around him). He loved cooking for his friends and relatives, and he and Helen hosted many dinners that were enjoyed by all who attended. He was also ridiculously lucky; there was many a "board" won by him at the Perryville Elks Lodge. Thomas is survived by his wife Helen; daughter Sabrina of Atlanta, GA; son Gregory and his fiance Erin; brother Roger and sister-in-law Karen. He is preceded in death by his parents; brother Harold Gibbar Jr.; and sister Dorothy (Gibbar) Wibbenmeyer. Visitation will be from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Sunday, March 10, 2024 at Ford & Young Funeral Home in Perryville and will continue from 8:00 am to 9:00 am on Monday, March 11, 2024 at Ford & Young Funeral Home. Funeral Mass will be at 10:00 am Monday, March 11, 2024 at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church in Perryville with Rev. Joe Geders C.M. officiating. Military Honors will follow provided by the Delta Team and American Legion Post #133. Memorial contributions may be given to American Cancer Society or charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.fordandyoungfuneralhome.com. Ford & Young Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

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Thomas Richard Gibbar

August 16, 1947 - March 3, 2024